When buyers plan for a home purchase, almost all the mental energy goes to one number: the down payment. And I get it — it's the biggest single check you'll write. But it's not the only one. I've seen buyers save diligently for years, hit their down payment goal, and then get blindsided by the other costs that show up between offer and keys.

None of these costs should scare you off. Every one of them is predictable if you know it's coming. So let's walk through what buying a home in California actually costs — beyond the down payment.

Closing costs: the second-biggest number

Closing costs are the collection of fees you pay to actually complete the purchase — lender fees, title and escrow charges, recording fees, and more. In many cases, California buyers can expect closing costs to run somewhere in the range of 2–3% of the purchase price, though this varies by transaction, lender, and loan program.

A few of the big line items you'll see on your Closing Disclosure:

The good news: closing costs are often negotiable in ways buyers don't realize. Sellers can contribute credits, and lender credits can offset costs in exchange for adjustments elsewhere in your loan structure. That's a conversation worth having before you write an offer, not after.

Prepaids and escrow: paying ahead, not extra

At closing, you'll also fund what are called prepaids — upfront amounts for property taxes, homeowners insurance, and prepaid interest. These often get lumped in with "closing costs," but they're different: this isn't money lost to fees. It's your own future expenses, collected early to seed your escrow account.

Still, it's real cash you need at the closing table. Your first year of homeowners insurance is typically paid in full up front, and several months of property taxes may be collected to establish the escrow cushion. In a state like California, where property values are high, prepaids can add a meaningful amount to your cash-to-close.

The costs nobody puts on a disclosure form

Then there's everything that happens outside the loan file. These are the expenses I remind every first-time buyer to budget for:

My rule of thumb for clients: after your down payment and closing costs, aim to keep a reserve rather than emptying every account to close. Lenders often like to see reserves too — and more importantly, you'll sleep better with them.

Why this shouldn't discourage you

Reading a list like this, it's easy to conclude that buying is further away than you thought. Usually, the opposite is true. Most of these costs are flexible, negotiable, or reducible — seller credits, lender credits, and down payment assistance programs can offset a surprising share of your cash-to-close for qualified borrowers, subject to qualification. But those tools only help if they're built into your strategy from the start.

The buyers who get surprised at closing aren't the ones who lacked money. They're the ones who lacked a complete picture. Once you know the full number, you can plan for it — and planning is the whole game.

What I'd tell a friend

Before you fall in love with a house, get a real cash-to-close estimate for your specific situation — down payment, closing costs, prepaids, and a cushion for the rest. It takes one conversation, and it turns a vague worry into a concrete plan. Every buyer's numbers look different, which is exactly why a generic article (even this one) can only take you so far.